We're Not So Different Medieval BDSM
Jul 30, 2025
Explore the intriguing world of medieval BDSM practices that stretch back to before written history. The hosts uncover ancient customs and the erotic nuances of the past, touching on stories of Abelard and Heloise among others. They highlight the significance of consent and power dynamics while examining how societal norms influenced sexual relationships. From comical blanket fort challenges to bizarre burial rites, prepare for a candid and humorous dive into the interplay of pain, desire, and historical curiosities!
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Ancient Etruscan BDSM Tomb
- The Tomb of the Whipping in Etruscan Tarquinia shows BDSM practices in 500 BCE through explicit murals.
- This proves BDSM existed in ancient times, contrary to ideas it's a modern invention.
BDSM Needs Careful Consent
- BDSM involves power play, bondage, discipline, and sadomasochism with an emphasis on consent.
- Consent is complex and critical; BDSM practitioners often master negotiation and safety better than average.
BDSM Is Historically Normal
- BDSM and alternative sexual practices are ancient, not modern inventions of the 1960s.
- Suppressing kink ignores historical sexual diversity and affects queer and non-procreative sexualities.
