#127 - The Real Reason You Have Anxious Attachment (And How to Heal It)

In this episode of The New Age Sage Podcast, I break down one of the biggest illusions in modern relationships — the anxious attachment cycle.

We’ll dive into why love can feel like withdrawal, how validation becomes a drug, and why so many of us keep mistaking intensity for intimacy. I explore what really happens when your nervous system mistakes fear for love, and how that pulls you into chasing, controlling, and losing yourself trying to feel “safe.”

You’ll learn how to recognize when you’ve lost your center, how to reclaim it without shutting down emotionally, and why true security comes from the inside out — not from a perfectly reassuring partner. Most of all, I’ll share the practices that helped me move from dependency to devotion, from needing love to being love.

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Lucas Salame: https://www.instagram.com/lucas__salame | https://www.new-age-sage.com