The Carey Nieuwhof Leadership Podcast CNLP 168 | John Ortberg on The Problem with Hurry in Leadership, Why So Many Leaders Struggle With Intimacy and His Friendship with Dallas Willard
Nov 28, 2017
John Ortberg, a renowned teaching pastor and author, explores the challenges leaders face in building intimacy and handling personal burdens. He discusses the paradox of attraction in relationships, emphasizing how differences can both invite connection and create friction. Ortberg shares insights on the necessity of deep friendships for leaders and the importance of prioritizing genuine relationships over superficial successes. He also addresses the transformative moments in leadership that shape personal and spiritual growth, urging leaders to embrace authenticity.
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Similarities vs. Differences in Relationships
- Similarities in a relationship are beneficial, according to eHarmony research.
- Differences, while initially attractive, often become challenges later.
Introvert vs. Extrovert
- John Ortberg shares an anecdote about his wife Nancy interrupting his focused work.
- This highlights their personality differences as an introvert and extrovert.
Self-Acceptance
- Ortberg initially believed he was an extrovert because he saw it as positive.
- Accepting his introversion was key to accepting his wife's extroversion.
