Why You’re Not Attracting What You Want

Oct 30, 2025

Ever wondered why some people naturally attract others? Discover how your internal energy, confidence, and authenticity play crucial roles in magnetism. The hosts explore the impact of self-belief and integrity, revealing that true attraction starts from within. They discuss the neuroscience behind confidence and how our self-worth shapes relationships and wealth. It's all about being yourself and embracing uniqueness—because when you shine, the world notices. Learn to attract what you desire by reframing your inner dialogue and celebrating small wins.

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INSIGHT

Magnetism Is Energy, Not Appearance

Attraction is a visible energy that makes people move toward you without effort.
That magnetic quality comes from how you hold yourself and the internal confidence you radiate.

ANECDOTE

Walking Out Of The Circle

Alex shared meeting Andrew where he left a circle to come speak to her, showing magnetic draw in action.
That moment illustrated how someone's internal pull can prompt visible effort from others.

INSIGHT

Attraction Starts With Self-Trust

True attraction originates from internal belief and integrity, not performance.
Keeping promises to yourself builds instant trust and a grounded presence others feel.

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Ever walk into a room and feel someone’s energy before they even say a word? That glow, that confidence, that unspoken “something” that makes people lean in? Today, we’re diving deep into the real meaning of attraction (and spoiler alert) it’s got a whole lot less to do with what’s on the outside and everything to do with the energy you embody on the inside.

In this playful Halloween episode, Carol and Alex unpack what it means to truly be magnetic in your relationships, your business, and your life. From George Clooney charm to Julia Roberts authenticity, they explore how genuine confidence, internal alignment, and self-trust are what actually draw others in.

Carol shares how attraction starts with self-belief when you keep promises to yourself and operate with integrity, you radiate trust and grounded energy that others can feel. Alex brings in her own story of moving to a new community and noticing how our internal dialogue shapes what we attract, whether it’s clients, friendships, or opportunities. Together, they reveal the simple but powerful truth: the more you approve of you, the easier it becomes for everything you desire to find its way toward you.

You’ll learn:
💫 Why “trying too hard” repels the very things you want and how authenticity effortlessly attracts.
💫 The neuroscience behind magnetic confidence and how your brain literally rewires to support it.
💫 How your internal beliefs about worthiness influence your wealth, relationships, and even your website presence.
💫 Why what you believe about yourself determines what you receive from others.

This episode is your reminder that attraction isn’t about forcing, chasing, or performing, it’s about becoming. When you ground in your identity, own your energy, and believe you’re worthy of what you’re calling in, you naturally become a magnet for it all, wealth, clients, love, and aligned opportunities.

So if you’ve ever wondered, “Why am I not attracting what I want?” this conversation will help you shift from external approval to internal power, and remind you that your authentic energy is your greatest currency.

✨ Connect with us:
Want to attract the wealth, opportunities, and clients that align with your true self?

💎 Connect with Carol in the DMs on Instagram @carol to learn more about her NeuroWealth Method and how to close the gap to seven figures with ease and authenticity.

💻 Connect with Alex in the DMs on Instagram @alexliannecarter to make sure your website and digital presence reflect the magnetic leader you are and attract clients who are ready to say “yes.”

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