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#463 Sex, Sweat, and Perimenopause with Lauren Tetenbaum

Dec 9, 2025
Lauren Tetenbaum, a licensed clinical social worker and expert in women’s reproductive health, takes listeners on a journey through the complexities of perimenopause. She distinguishes it from menopause and discusses why this often-overlooked phase is getting more attention today. Listeners learn about common symptoms, the biological impacts on libido, and practical tips for enhancing sexual connection, including the use of sex toys and lube. With a focus on communication, Lauren empowers individuals and their partners to navigate this stage with confidence.
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INSIGHT

Perimenopause Versus Menopause

  • Perimenopause means "around" menopause and describes the hormonal roller coaster before the final period.
  • Menopause is defined as one year after the last menstrual period.
INSIGHT

Why Perimenopause Is Finally Getting Attention

  • Millennials and Gen X pushed perimenopause into public conversation and demanded better care and representation.
  • Increased lifespan means many people live large portions of life post-menopause, so care matters.
ADVICE

Treat Symptoms Not A Single Blood Test

  • Prioritize symptoms over lab tests because hormone levels fluctuate and bloodwork can be misleading.
  • Describe what's bothering you and seek treatment for the specific symptoms you want fixed.
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