Shameless Sex

#452 Face Sex: Exploring Intimate Kink Play

Sep 23, 2025
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Orpheus Black
Orpheus Black, a world-renowned kink educator and pro-dom, returns to discuss the intense world of face-centric kink, including face fucking, face sitting, and queening. He explores the differences between these acts and why many are drawn to them. Safety is paramount, as they discuss breath control and essential precautions. Orpheus offers tips for maximizing pleasure, including the best props and toys to elevate your experience. He also shares insights on the connection between kink, empowerment, and trauma, making for a fascinating and enlightening conversation.
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INSIGHT

Sex Acts Are Politically Framed

  • Face-centric kinks carry political and moral baggage that affects consent and stigma around them.
  • Awareness of decency politics helps partners anticipate external judgments and negotiate care accordingly.
ADVICE

Set Clear Nonverbal Safety Signals

  • Agree on a nonverbal safe gesture (like three taps) before face fucking so the giver can pull back immediately when needed.
  • Use hands as a physical stopper to limit depth and protect the throat from laceration or gagging.
ADVICE

Hygiene And Positioning Matter

  • Inspect and wash the penis before oral play and avoid numbing the throat so pain stays as a warning signal.
  • Negotiate hand placement and angles to minimize airway restriction and avoid hands behind the neck.
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