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351: A World Beyond Revenge: What if your brother was murdered in a hate crime?

Feb 25, 2025
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Heather Thompson
Heather Thompson, a storyteller and advocate for restorative justice, shares her deeply personal journey after her brother David was murdered in a hate crime. She candidly discusses the cycle of grief and anger that followed and her eventual choice to meet the perpetrator. Their encounter highlights the complexities of forgiveness and the transformative potential of empathy. Thompson reflects on the broader implications of restorative justice, challenging traditional notions of accountability while emphasizing healing through connection and understanding.
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David's Character

  • Heather Thompson's brother, David, was openly gay and a talented hairdresser.
  • He owned two salons, appeared in magazines and on TV, and was unapologetically himself.
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Family Dynamics

  • David's father disapproved of his lifestyle, especially his clothing choices.
  • Despite this, David remained true to himself and supportive of Heather, cheering her on at graduation.
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The Murder

  • Heather's brother, David, was murdered, and his body was discovered by her sister.
  • The police investigation, fueled by witness testimonies, led to the arrest of Chris, an 18-year-old.
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