Play Therapy Podcast 20 | Encouragement
Nov 30, 2022
Dive into the world of play therapy as the power of encouragement takes center stage. Discover the crucial difference between encouragement and praise, and why it matters. Learn how to effectively use encouragement in the playroom to foster self-worth and confidence in children. This insightful discussion sheds light on the vital role encouragement plays in therapeutic practices, making it a cornerstone for nurturing young minds.
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Praise Creates External Control
- Praise is outcome-based and includes value judgments like "good job" or "fantastic."
- It creates an external locus of control, making children dependent on external validation.
Reject Praise, Embrace Encouragement
- Avoid using praise as it fosters external validation and dependence in children.
- Commit to using encouragement to promote children's self-worth and competence.
Encouragement Builds Internal Motivation
- Encouragement is effort-focused, non-evaluative, and internalizes motivation within the child.
- It promotes self-esteem, confidence, and an internal locus of control.