Queer Collective Podcast Bisexuality Isn’t 50/50 - It’s a Bi-Cycle ft. Kelc And Joe
Sep 11, 2025
Explore the fluidity of bisexuality, where attraction shifts like a bi-cycle. Personal stories reveal the complexities of identifying and navigating relationships when desires are in flux. Discover the impact of societal expectations on self-identity and the challenges of communication in romantic scenarios. The discussion highlights the importance of embracing fluid attractions, tackling confusion, and finding joy in the journey of self-discovery. Humor and honesty shine as they uncover the intricacies of love within the bisexual community.
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Sexuality Flows Over Time
- The "bi-cycle" means bisexual attraction can ebb and flow and is not always equal or constant over time.
- Phases can last days, months, or years and are influenced by life events, emotions, and biology.
Evolving From Lesbian To Bisexual
- Joe described coming out as bisexual after years identifying as a lesbian and noticing attraction changed as gender understanding evolved.
- They reported swings between attraction to women, men, and non-binary people tied to gender and comfort.
High School Breakup To Explore Desire
- Karbon shared first experiencing the bi-cycle in high school while in a relationship with a man and wanting to explore women.
- They respected their partner's boundary, broke up, explored, and later saw attraction shift again years later.