Optimal Finance Daily - Financial Independence and Money Advice 3250: Seven Guidelines To Keep The Business of Your Marriage Going Strong by Dr. Margaret Rutherford
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Aug 17, 2025 Dr. Margaret Rutherford shares seven actionable guidelines to treat marriage like a thriving business. Regular meetings can help couples stay aligned on finances and responsibilities. Emphasizing intentional communication can prevent resentment and foster trust. By viewing their relationship through a collaborative lens, partners can strengthen their bond and achieve shared goals. The discussion highlights the importance of approaching these conversations with an open heart and mind, ensuring a supportive and successful partnership.
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Hold Regular Marriage Meetings
- Schedule regular, intentional “meetings” to align on finances, goals, and shared responsibilities.
- Treat the meeting like a workplace meeting to avoid resentment and keep trust strong.
Build A Diverse Support Network
- A circle of support should include different people for different needs rather than one all-purpose confidant.
- Diverse supporters and paid professionals fill gaps and accelerate progress toward goals.
Set Topic Boundaries With Fearful People
- Identify who in your life fans fear and set boundaries on topics with them.
- Keep helpful people in your circle but avoid sharing things that trigger their negativity.