In this episode, the co-hosts of Forever 35, Kate Spencer and Doree Shafrir, join Prudie (Jenée Desmond-Harris) to answer letters from readers about whether it’s okay to reject holiday gifts, how to cope when participating in a charity turkey giveaway pisses you off, and what to do when your best friend won’t read your book.

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Podcast production by Se’era Spragley Ricks and Daisy Rosario, with help from Vic Whitley-Berry.

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Dear Prudence: My Friend Won’t Stop Buying Me Gifts. Help!