The Luke Coutinho Show - Reimagine Your Lifestyle Embracing Change in Relationships with Sister BK Shivani: The Conscious Shift | S2 E12
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May 22, 2024 In this engaging discussion, Sister BK Shivani, a spiritual mentor with the Brahma Kumaris, shares wisdom on navigating relationship changes. She emphasizes the significance of mutual acceptance and emotional independence. The conversation explores how drastic personal growth can create gaps, the importance of empathy, and the value of leading by example. Shivani advocates for patience and a supportive environment, urging listeners to shift from expectations to acceptance in relationships. Her insights redefine how we approach personal transformations among loved ones.
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Child Reacts To Sudden Change
- A doctor’s son complained that his mother “has changed” after returning from a retreat and stopped speaking negatively.
- The boy felt uncomfortable because the mother’s sudden, drastic change disrupted familiar family dynamics.
Changer Bears Responsibility
- The first responsibility lies with the person making a conscious positive change, not with others to accept it.
- Imposing new habits on family causes resistance and conflict rather than smooth transition.
Lead By Quiet Example
- Do not impose your new habits or preach them to family; avoid forcing others to follow immediately.
- Instead, live the change quietly and let your behaviour demonstrate the benefits over time.