Why Young Men Feel Lost - Connor Tomlinson

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Mar 27, 2024

Join Connor Tomlinson, a political commentator and writer known for his insights on Gen Z and masculinity, as he discusses the challenges faced by young men today. He highlights the confusion surrounding modern masculinity and the absence of positive role models. The impact of technology on identity and relationships takes center stage, with social media influencing self-worth. Connor also tackles generational tensions, exploring the growing disconnect between Baby Boomers and Gen Z amidst economic challenges and societal expectations.

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Masculinity Crisis

Men are experiencing a crisis of identity, struggling with traditional masculinity.
This struggle leads to a bifurcation in political attitudes, with some men becoming more socially conservative.

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Online Influence

Young men are increasingly influenced by online narratives and social trends.
This influence can lead to both destructive and positive political identities.

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Atomized Society

Modern society is creating an atomized, unisex consumer unit where individuals chase validation.
This atomization leads to loneliness, mental health issues, and a decline in traditional relationships.

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