

What is Love? St. Valentinus, Agape, and Eros
Feb 17, 2025
Explore the fascinating history of Valentine's Day, focusing on the martyrdom of Saint Valentinus, known for his secret marriages. Discover how modern views of love contrast with a biblical approach that highlights selflessness and transformation. Dive into the significance of love in Scripture and how it inspires our actions. Reflect on personal sacrifices while considering resources for understanding identity and mental health through a Christian lens.
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St. Valentinus's Martyrdom
- Valentine's Day commemorates St. Valentinus, a 3rd-century Christian martyr.
- He defied Emperor Claudius II's marriage ban and secretly married couples, leading to his execution around February 14th.
Selfless Love vs. Selfish Love
- Modern expressions of love are often self-centered, contrasting with St. Valentinus's sacrifice.
- True romantic love (eros), as C.S. Lewis described, prioritizes another's well-being, reflecting God's agape love.
Twisted Eros
- When romance or sex become solely ends in themselves, eros is twisted.
- This reduces love to selfish sensuality, leading to brokenness.