THE MONOGAMISH MARRIAGE

S5 Ep. 01: Does Size Really Matter?

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Oct 16, 2025
Kate and Liam tackle the provocative question of whether size really matters in intimate relationships. They explore personal anecdotes, early experiences, and the impact of societal stereotypes on body image. The duo discusses the nuances of 'growers' versus 'showers' and how partners' validation can reshape perceptions. They emphasize that emotional connection and technique often outweigh size in creating fulfilling sexual experiences. Listeners are reassured that many find average or smaller sizes desirable, promoting confidence over anxiety.
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INSIGHT

Size Matters Contextually

  • Kate and Liam argue that size does matter but not uniformly; context and use determine value.
  • Bigger isn't always better and sometimes a more manageable size is preferable.
ANECDOTE

Puberty Shower Revelations

  • Liam recalls first noticing size differences during team sports showers in puberty.
  • A story about teammate 'Dennis' shaped his early beliefs about desirability.
INSIGHT

Stereotypes Harm More Than Help

  • Kate highlights harmful racial stereotypes linking size to race and their real-world harms.
  • She stresses exceptions exist and stereotypes cause shame and unfair expectations.
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