Queer Collective Podcast The Lesbian Relationship Myths We Can’t Kill ft. Shannon
Sep 25, 2025
In this lively discussion, Sapphic poet Shannon, known as Lesbian Playboy Poetry, dives into the myths surrounding lesbian relationships. They tackle the emotional intensity often associated with sapphic love, suggesting it may stem from socialization rather than nature. The origin of the U-Haul stereotype is explored, revealing historical context that’s often overlooked. They also discuss 'lesbian bed death', finding that while sexual frequency might be lower, satisfaction remains high. Join Shannon and the hosts as they challenge misconceptions and celebrate queer love.
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Loving As Liberation
- Loving another woman intensely can feel like an act of liberation rooted in history and identity.
- Shannon says that deep emotional investment often stems from reclaiming freedom to love openly.
Socialization Shapes Emotional Style
- Women are socialized to express emotions while men are often taught to suppress them, shaping relationship dynamics.
- Research shows lesbian couples display higher emotional expressiveness but also better post-conflict recovery.
The Four-Day First Date
- Shannon recounts a four-day all-consuming first-date that fizzled immediately afterward.
- She frames it as a fun but brief experience that taught her boundaries about rapid intensity.
