

#5-Masculinity & Fatherhood-A conversation with Dr David Kuhl.
Jan 8, 2023
Dr. David Kuhl, a physician and co-founder of Blueprint at UBC, delves into the evolving roles of men and boys in society. He discusses the urgent need to redefine masculinity to combat issues like mental health and emotional expression. The conversation covers the importance of fostering emotional growth in young boys, breaking generational trauma, and encouraging vulnerability among men. By engaging in meaningful discussions, Kuhl highlights how men can transform relationships and support healthier family dynamics, promoting a more compassionate future.
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Adolescent Male Violence Is Socially Shaped
- Male violence concentrates in adolescent and young adult males rather than being an innate male-only flaw.
- Socialization and rites of passage shape whether that adolescent energy becomes violence or generosity.
Childhood Shaped A Career Shift
- David Kuhl described his childhood with a bipolar father as a driver for choosing medicine and later men-focused work.
- He observed men resist seeking help and found speaking about soul-level issues began healing.
Bravery Can Mask Unprocessed Suffering
- Soldiers join to be brave and protective but often cannot admit the soul-destroying effects of killing.
- That tension leaves many men ashamed and unable to process suffering until offered safe spaces to speak.