According to most neurologists and psychologists, 90 to 98 percent of a persons conscious awareness is not actually inside of the individuals awareness but rather existing in the unconscious of the subconscious mind. Wounds of childhood exists in the subconscious and create a faulty subconscious programming that without identifying, dismantling and healing will create patterns that lead to destruction and possibly abuse. When looking to heal from abuse it is important o make the unconscious conscious and heal the faulty programming to create healthier relationship patterns that promote health and functional, long lasting relationship possible.