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Punishments and Rewards and What to Do Instead with Alfie Kohn

Nov 3, 2023
Explore the flaws of using punishments and rewards in parenting and teaching with insights from Alfie Kohn. Learn about transitioning to more empathetic and collaborative approaches, supporting children through transitions, and advocating for respectful discipline. Discover the importance of fostering genuine motivation and moral development in children.
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Quick takeaways

  • Punishments and rewards promote temporary compliance through control, harming relationships and self-centered attitudes.
  • Alfie Kohn advocates for understanding children's motives, values, and concerns to foster genuine personal growth.

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The Problem with Punishments and Rewards

Both punishments and rewards aim at temporary compliance through control, focusing on doing things to people instead of working with them. Punishments make individuals feel powerless, leading to negative relationships and self-centered attitudes. Similarly, rewards only result in transient compliance, emphasizing self-interest over consideration for others, diminishing intrinsic motivation and genuine care for others.

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