Dating Intentionally 177. How to Spot Real Compatibility in Early Dating w/ Danny Goldstein
May 27, 2025
Danny Goldstein, founder of Crux Compatible, dives into the world of intentional dating and real compatibility. He shares his journey from law to matchmaking, revealing his unique questionnaire process. Discover how to plan engaging dates that foster genuine connections and the common mistakes daters often make. Danny emphasizes the importance of looking beyond surface-level impressions to understand true attraction and compatibility. With his innovative strategies for first dates, listeners will learn to spark chemistry in fun, meaningful ways.
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Challenges of Dating in an Open System
- Dating in an open system like Austin is challenging due to infinite options and abundance of attractive people. - Infinite options cause people to hesitate committing, always looking for someone better.
Unexpected Compatibility Indicators
- Shared quirky interests like liking scary movies can correlate with deeper compatibility linked to personality and humor. - Attachment styles weigh heavily; mismatched styles can spark but won’t sustain relationships.
Better Connections In Person
- A woman swiped left on a man on an app but agreed to meet via Danny’s match; she found him much cuter in person. - In-person meetings reveal authentic chemistry missed on dating apps.
