Robot Unicorn The Truth Behind Swearing And Rude Language In Kids
Jun 30, 2025
In this engaging discussion, the hosts delve into why children often experiment with rude language as a normal part of development. They explore how shocking words express big emotions and can signal a need for attention. The conversation highlights practical strategies for parents to respond effectively, such as modeling calmness and teaching alternative ways to express anger. Touching on the link between ADHD and verbal outbursts, they emphasize the importance of understanding underlying needs while maintaining boundaries. It's a fascinating insight into navigating this challenging phase of childhood.
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Rudeness Is Developmental Testing
- Rude words in young children often reflect curiosity, shock value, and testing reactions rather than fixed cruelty.
- Jess VanderWier urges curiosity about how the language serves each child before overreacting.
Words Escalate When Feelings Aren't Heard
- Shocking words can be escalation bids to get parental attention or show intensity of feeling.
- Validating the underlying anger early can prevent reaching explosive language.
Teach New Ways To Be Angry
- Teach children how to be angry by noticing early escalation signs and redirecting before explosions.
- Do validate feelings, offer movement breaks, and address bids before the outburst.