St. Robert Daygame & Dating Podcast Ep. 190: How To Deal With All 3 Types Of Frame Tests | Mastering Frame Control In A Structured Way. Part 3
Apr 3, 2025
Explore the essentials of frame tests in dating, from identifying active frame tests to handling the tricky frame traps. Discover why sparking emotional responses is key to connection, and how to spot gold diggers before wasting time. Learn why afternoon coffee often leads to the friend zone and the steps to ensure your dates stay on the right track. With insightful strategies and practical tips, you'll master frame control like a pro!
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Frame Tests Are Mostly Accidental
- Most frame tests are not intentional active tests but accidental frame traps from innocent comments or questions.
- Recognizing the type of frame situation is crucial because each requires a different response strategy.
Escalate Frame Control Stepwise
- Start with non-reactivity and escalate up the frame control ladder if needed: agree and amplify, call out jokingly, light push, freeze out, royal flash.
- React early rather than bottling anger and snapping, which destroys the interaction.
From Tests To Regular Hookups
- St. Robert describes a woman who alternated intense makeouts and stopping, then later became a regular who sent wild videos and visited for casual sex.
- He handled her tests and she rewarded him with a high-sex, low-drama dynamic.