183. Steve Donofrio: Crafting Extraordinary Stories From Ordinary Life
Nov 13, 2021
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Former US Army NCO Steve Donofrio discusses his accidental entry into the speaking industry and the power of storytelling. He explores the significance of ancient stories and the storytelling arc, and shares techniques for improving storytelling skills through observation and mindfulness.
Crafting extraordinary stories from ordinary life by connecting stories to principles and points.
The enduring significance of storytelling and the importance of understanding the narrative arc in creating compelling stories.
Deep dives
Becoming a Professional Speaker
Steve Donofrio shares how he stumbled upon the speaking industry after years of experience as a youth pastor and trainer. Despite not realizing there was a professional speaking industry, his background in speaking and training provided a solid foundation for his journey. He highlights the importance of not forcing stories when they do not fit and not making every story about oneself. Instead, he suggests connecting stories to principles and points, drawing inspiration from children's stories, fables, and parables. By doing so, speakers can create extraordinary stories from the ordinary moments of their lives.
The Power of Storytelling
Steve emphasizes the enduring significance of storytelling throughout human history. Stories have been used to educate, entertain, and pass down cultural heritage for generations. He believes that storytelling remains as important as ever, even in today's digital age. While acknowledging the prevalence of short-form communication like social media and emojis, Steve argues that storytelling is a more effective and engaging way to inspire and communicate. He delves into the common mistakes speakers make in storytelling, such as forcing stories where they are not necessary, making stories only about themselves, and neglecting the power of vulnerability and relatability. He encourages people to tap into the treasure trove of fables, parables, and children's stories to craft impactful narratives.
Crafting Effective Stories with Narrative Arcs
Steve explains the concept of a narrative arc and its role in creating compelling stories. He highlights the key elements of a narrative arc - exposition, rising action, climax, falling action, and resolution. Whether crafting a two-minute story or a longer narrative, understanding the narrative arc helps storytellers structure their stories and engage their audience. He advises speakers to open their stories by setting the stage and introducing the characters, build tension through conflicts or significant events, reach a climactic moment where the main character must make a choice or face a truth, explore the consequences of that choice in the falling action, and conclude with a resolution or outcome. Steve encourages speakers to apply the principles of narrative arcs in their personal stories, drawing inspiration from their own lives and finding connections to relatable situations and universal principles.
Steve Donofrio is a former Non Commissioned officer (NCO) in the US Army with deployments to Iraq and Kuwait for the first Gulf war as well as other real-world missions. As an international motivational speaker and leadership trainer, Steve utilizes his 20 years of speaking and training to help leaders move things to done through […]
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