101: Connective Sex And Non Monogamy With Reid from ReidAboutSex

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The Pineapple Express: A Guide to Millennial Love, Evolution, and Relationships

In this episode, I sit down with the legendary Reid Mihalko—sex and relationship educator, creator of Sex Geek Summer Camp, and the brain behind reidaboutsex.com—to talk about something that often gets overlooked in non-monogamy: connective sex.

Whether you’re navigating swinging, polyamory, or open relationships, it can be easy to get swept up in novelty, scheduling, and logistics… but Reid and I unpack the deeper stuff:

✨ What does it really mean to stay emotionally connected during casual or multiple sexual connections?

•  How do you create sex that feels nourishing—not just exciting?
•  Can casual sex be intimate? (Spoiler: Yes. And Reid tells us how.)

We talk about:
 – The difference between “porn sex” and “connected sex”
 – How to bring heart, intention, and intimacy into non-monogamous dynamics
 – Tools for checking in with partners before and after play
– Why emotional presence during sex matters—even when it’s casual

Whether you’re new to ethical non-monogamy or years into your journey, this episode is packed with wisdom, warmth, and permission to slow down and get real about what turns you on—emotionally.

About Reid Mihalko:
Reid is a world-renowned sex and relationship coach who blends humor, heart, and skill-building to help people create more intimacy and connection in their sex lives. You can learn more about him at reidaboutsex.com.

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