Shameless Sex #454 Sex, Pleasure, and Porn - with Jessica Drake
Oct 7, 2025
In this engaging conversation, Jessica Drake, an award-winning sex educator and former porn performer, discusses her transformative journey from adult film to advocacy. She shares insights on dismantling stigmas surrounding sex work and the importance of 'porn literacy' in fostering healthier sexual relationships. Jessica reveals enlightening experiences from her 25 years in the industry, emphasizing that it's not just about sex—it's about the people. Join her as she challenges assumptions and inspires a more open-minded approach to pleasure and education.
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Use Toys And Media To Simulate A Third
- Try using a dildo with a Bon-Bon pillow, suction-cup toys, or sex machines to embody a third partner during play.
- Use media like Erica Lust in the background to guide pacing and reduce the need for literal roleplay.
Plan Toy-Based Threesome Roleplay
- Do set the stage and plan intentional toy-based roleplay if you want to simulate a threesome without another person.
- Lay out toys, media cues, and boundaries beforehand to reduce awkwardness and increase pleasure.
From Conservative Upbringing To Performer
- Jessica Drake grew up in a conservative Jehovah's Witness household and felt fearful and uncomfortable about sex.
- She moved from stripping during college to visiting LA sets, which opened her mind to porn as a professional path.