

62: The Art of Masculinity Series – How to be a Good Man with Aaron Francis
Aug 24, 2025
Aaron Francis, co-founder of Try Hard Studios and father of four, shares heartfelt insights on modern masculinity and the essence of being a good husband. He navigates the ups and downs of relationships, emphasizing communication, collaboration, and shared values. Aaron also addresses the complexities of parenthood, balancing discipline with emotional support. He discusses traditional gender roles and the importance of personal growth in partnerships, all while reflecting on the responsibility of privilege in society.
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How He Won Her Back
- Aaron met Jennifer after college through mutual friends and persisted after an initial cold dismissal.
- They dated, briefly broke up for 45 days, reconciled, and soon got engaged.
Static + Dynamic Compatibility
- Aaron says shared foundational beliefs and a communication process matter more than agreement on every detail.
- He calls this static compatibility (values) plus dynamic compatibility (how you disagree) as key to marital success.
Ask 'What's Wrong?' And Listen
- Ask your partner what's wrong and listen to their real answer without defensiveness.
- Respond by asking to understand and by adjusting behavior, not by dismissing feelings.