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The Later Dater Today

#3 Everyone Is a Museum and Most of Us Stay in the Lobby

Jun 1, 2023
Dating expert Lakshmi, founder of The Later Dater Today, explores the metaphor of dating as visiting a museum. They discuss the impact of language, the significance of hidden aspects in understanding others, and the importance of truly seeing and understanding someone on a deeper level.
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  • Look beyond surface-level judgments and engage with others on a deeper level by viewing them as museums with life stories as exhibits.
  • Be mindful of the language used in dating, as it can shape perceptions, emotions, and ultimately influence thoughts, feelings, and actions in the dating process.

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The Museum Metaphor

The podcast introduces a metaphor for dating, comparing people to museums and their life stories to exhibits. The metaphor encourages listeners to move beyond surface-level judgments and engage with others on a deeper level. By contextualizing the individuals they meet, listeners can experience a shift from looking at someone to truly seeing them.

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