Stoic Coffee Break 313 - Q & A: Why Stoicism, Dealing with Narcissists, Agency, Acceptance and Boundaries
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Sep 17, 2024 Explore the transformative power of Stoicism in everyday life. Discover how to manage relationships with narcissists and the importance of emotional responsibility. Learn about the role of personal agency and the necessity of setting boundaries to maintain your well-being. Gain insights into acceptance and navigating interpersonal dynamics, all while letting go of people-pleasing habits. This enlightening discussion offers practical wisdom to enhance your emotional resilience and agency.
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Eric Cloward's Stoic Transformation
- Eric Cloward shares how Stoicism helped him overcome anger and anxiety by understanding what he can control.
- He recounts realizing self-acceptance involves embracing flaws he once saw as intolerable.
Control Your Emotions Only
- Do not take responsibility for others' emotions; focus on your control over your own reactions.
- Recognize emotional manipulation attempts and maintain control to avoid being influenced.
Agency through Control Awareness
- Recognizing the limited scope of your control empowers you to act where it matters.
- Complaining about what you can't change leads to victimhood, but focusing on what you control builds agency.