Intelligence Squared Misogyny and the Middle-Aged Woman, with Victoria Smith, Hadley Freeman and Sonia Sodha, Part Two
Mar 25, 2024
Victoria Smith, author of "Hags", dives into the prejudice faced by middle-aged women, shedding light on the societal rage directed towards them. Hadley Freeman shares insights on the complexities of kindness within gender dynamics. Sonia Sodha discusses the evolving perceptions of women as they age, challenging negative stereotypes and emphasizing the wisdom that comes with it. Together, they advocate for solidarity and honest dialogue among women, highlighting the necessity of bridging generational gaps in feminist discussions.
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Be Kind to Men
- Hadley Freeman recalls men telling her and other women to "be kind" for criticizing males in women's sports.
- "Be kind" often translates to "be kind to men," she observes.
Weaponized Kindness
- Women are often conditioned to be kind and compassionate, facing pressure from religious, neuroscientific, and social justice narratives.
- This expectation of kindness can be weaponized against women when they express dissenting opinions.
TERF Views
- A male columnist claimed that "TERF views are dying out."
- Hadley Freeman and Helen Lewis countered, highlighting that as long as women exist, they'll acknowledge biological realities.
