They discuss praise kinks and lacking intimacy, share stories from their break, and introduce new sponsors. They also talk about boundaries in intimate relationships and a rule that requires waiting 48 hours before having sex. The hosts discuss their rule of disclosure, and explore praise kinks and dirty talk ideas.
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Address the lack of intimacy and sexual spark through open communication and potential therapy.
Establish clear boundaries while exploring a potential connection, prioritizing open communication and comfort.
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Exploring Polyamory and Intimacy in a Relationship
The listener is in a polyamorous relationship but has been experiencing a lack of intimacy and sexual spark with their partner. They have reconnected with a friend who is also polyamorous and wants to explore a potential connection. However, the listener's partner has been exhibiting jealousy and spiteful behavior. The listener seeks advice on how to navigate this situation and bring more dirty talk and praise into their sexual experiences.
Addressing Intimacy Issues and Seeking Therapy
The listener is advised to address the lack of intimacy and sexual spark in their primary relationship. They are encouraged to have open and honest conversations with their partner, potentially seek therapy or counseling together, and explore the underlying reasons behind the lack of intimacy. Communicating their needs and desires while ensuring their partner feels heard and comfortable is essential. Additionally, they can suggest resources like TikTok creators or online content focused on praise kinks to help their partner learn more and provide them with specific phrases or ideas.
Taking Things Slow and Setting Boundaries with the Potential Connection
While exploring a potential connection with their friend, the listener is advised to take things slow and establish clear boundaries. They can communicate their desires for more praise and dirty talk with their friend, providing specific examples or phrases they find appealing. By setting boundaries, such as limiting communication and time spent together, the listener can try to avoid getting too attached while still enjoying the new connection. It's important to prioritize open communication and ensure both partners are comfortable and willing to explore the desired kinks and dynamics.
Creative Verbiage and Comfort with Praise Kink
The listener is encouraged to provide their friends with benefits with verbiage ideas for praise kink. They can suggest phrases like 'good girl,' 'add a girl,' or other compliments that make them feel desired and praised. Recommending TikTok creators who specialize in praise kink discussions can also be helpful. It is suggested to assess the partner's comfort with giving and receiving praise and work on building their confidence in providing dirty talk. Experimenting with different phrases and finding what feels natural and exciting for both partners is key.
WE ARE BACK FAM! SO excited, hello season 4. We've got some stories from our break, we've got some cat noises, we answer some emails from fans regarding praise kinks and lacking intimacy, and we also have some new sponsors (check them out below!).
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