Breaking Down “Nobody Wants This”: Archetypes, Jealousy, & Getting Aroused by Big Words

Lauren and Trey dive into Season 2 of Netflix’s Nobody Wants This, and yes, there are definitely spoilers. The first third of the episode is pure chaos in the best way: the two of them can’t stop laughing, Lauren’s in a short skirt and tights, and Trey keeps telling listeners to go watch the video version because “you really need to see her outfit and hair today.”

Things heat up even more when Trey drops words like “archetype” and “tools for repair.” Lauren - ever the unabashed sapiosexual - keeps teasing that he’s absolutely getting lucky if he keeps talking like that.

From there, they break down the dynamics unfolding on the show: the “good boyfriend” archetype, the guilt around taking a “night off,” long-term relationship ruts, and, of course, jealousy in monogamous partnerships. That last one opens the door to a tender moment where Lauren admits she can’t know for sure if Trey will stay forever… and also knows she’d be okay, because of who she’s become.

They talk about the importance of telling the truth, even when it’s uncomfortable—like on their recent train ride back from NYC when Trey said, “That’s not OK, and you need to talk to your coach about that,” and Lauren appreciated the honesty instead of bristling.

The episode wraps with the two of them taking turns pretending to be characters from the show and “coaching” each other through messy plotlines. It’s hilarious, revealing, and full of heart.

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