Parallax Unique Self 2: A Conversation with Dr. Marc Gafni – No Self and Unique Self
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Feb 25, 2025 In this enlightening conversation, Dr. Marc Gafni, a visionary thinker and author known for his Unique Self Theory, dives deep into the contrasts between the concepts of 'No Self' and 'Unique Self.' He explores the role of personal identity in authentic connections, the transformative power of emotional pain in creativity, and critiques traditional views on human needs. Together with his insights on the journey from separate self to unique expression, Gafni presents a rich philosophical tapestry that invites listeners to reconsider their understanding of self and existence.
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Jumpa Roshi Story
- Marc Gafni recounts a story about a "showdown" with Jumpa Roshi regarding no-self vs. unique self.
- Gafni claimed Jumpa Roshi's unique personality is evidence of unique self, which Roshi conceded.
Unique Self and Love
- No-self teachings are helpful but can't fully account for individual uniqueness.
- Gafni argues that true love and appreciation arise from recognizing another's distinct qualities.
True Self and Unique Self in Love
- True love needs both true self (shared unity) and unique self (individual distinction).
- Recognizing both allows for genuine connection without jealousy or the need to hijack another's identity.
