Narcissism, Psychopathy, Borderline: How to Spot It and What to Do About It | W. Keith Campbell
Oct 11, 2023
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In this episode, W. Keith Campbell, Professor of Psychology at the University of Georgia, discusses narcissism, psychopathy, and borderline personality disorder. They explore the Big Five personality traits and their connection to narcissism, delve into the challenges of self-promotion and the negative perception of narcissism, and discuss the difficulties of navigating social media. They also touch on gaslighting, manipulation, and the goals of narcissistic individuals. Overall, it's an insightful conversation about understanding and dealing with various personality disorders.
Narcissism can be categorized into two main forms: grandiose narcissism and vulnerable narcissism, with the former exhibiting self-centeredness and assertiveness while the latter involves low self-esteem and a strong desire for attention.
The Big Five personality traits, including openness to experience, conscientiousness, extraversion, agreeableness, and neuroticism, provide a framework for understanding narcissism and its manifestations, with low agreeableness and high extraversion commonly associated with narcissistic traits.
Gaslighting is a manipulation tactic used by narcissistic individuals to distort reality and cause emotional harm, making it important to recognize manipulative behavior and establish boundaries when dealing with such individuals.
Deep dives
Narcissism and its Forms
Narcissism can be categorized into two main forms: grandiose narcissism and vulnerable narcissism. Grandiose narcissism is characterized by a sense of entitlement, self-centeredness, and assertiveness. Individuals with grandiose narcissism often appear charismatic and are successful in various areas of life. On the other hand, vulnerable narcissism involves low self-esteem, neuroticism, and a strong desire for attention and validation. These individuals may struggle with emotional regulation and have difficulties in forming stable relationships.
Big Five Personality Traits
The Big Five personality traits provide a framework for understanding different aspects of personality. These traits include openness to experience, conscientiousness, extraversion, agreeableness, and neuroticism. Narcissism can be associated with low agreeableness and high extraversion, although the specific manifestation can vary. Vulnerable narcissism may display high neuroticism alongside low agreeableness, while grandiose narcissism may exhibit extroversion and lower agreeableness.
Gaslighting and Manipulation
Gaslighting is a tactic often employed by narcissistic individuals to manipulate and distort others' perception of reality. Gaslighting can make people feel detached from reality and question their own sanity. Narcissists may intentionally deceive and exploit others, causing emotional harm. Recognizing manipulative behavior and setting boundaries can be important when dealing with such individuals.
Borderline Personality Disorder and Psychopathy
Borderline personality disorder is characterized by emotional dysregulation, impulsivity, and difficulties in maintaining relationships. It shares some traits with narcissism, but typically exhibits higher neuroticism and lower conscientiousness. Psychopathy, on the other hand, is associated with extreme manipulation, callousness, and intentional harm to others. Identifying red flags and seeking professional help can be crucial when dealing with individuals displaying these traits.
The goals of narcissistic people
The primary goal of narcissistic individuals is to attain social status, esteem, and attention. They seek admiration and ego validation, often associated with a desire for fame, leadership positions, and material possessions that convey social status.
The relationship between social media, selfies, and narcissism
Narcissistic individuals are more comfortable taking and sharing selfies, particularly those that showcase their bodies and enhance their status. However, agreeable individuals may also take selfies, but they are more likely to include others in the photos and focus on capturing moments of connection rather than personal status. The nature of social media, which runs on ego, has led to an overrepresentation of narcissism online, with individuals needing to maintain a social media presence to build a brand or business. Self-promotion becomes a necessary aspect of success in today's landscape.
Hey! This was one of my favorite episodes to date. I spoke with Dr. Keith Campbell about narcissism, psychopathy, and borderline personality disorder and which Big 5 personality traits lead to these characteristics, how to identify them, as well as what you can do if you are prone to narcissism, and more.
W. Keith Campbell, Ph.D., Professor of Psychology at the University of Georgia, is the author of more than 200 scientific papers and several books, including The Narcissism Epidemic: Living in the Age of Entitlement (with Jean Twenge) and The New Science of Narcissism. His work on narcissism has appeared in USA Today, Newsweek, and The New York Times, and he has made numerous radio and television appearances, from the Today Show to the Joe Rogan Experience. He also wrote the popular TED-Ed lesson on narcissism. He holds a BA from the University of California at Berkeley, an MA from San Diego State University, a Ph.D. from the University of North Carolina at Chapel Hill and did his postdoctoral work at Case Western Reserve University. He lives in Athens, Georgia, with his wife and daughters.