Totally Booked with Zibby Dr. Michael Reichert, HOW TO RAISE A BOY
Jul 11, 2019
Dr. Michael Reichert, the founding director of the Center for the Study of Boys and Girls' Lives, shares invaluable insights on raising boys in today's world. He discusses the societal pressures that shape their identity, emphasizing the importance of emotional expression and understanding. From exploring mother-son relationship dynamics to re-evaluating traditional masculinity, this conversation is packed with practical strategies for fostering resilience. Reinhardt's 'listen, limit, listen' approach serves as a guide for parents navigating boyhood challenges.
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Personal Loss and Boyhood Struggles
- Michael Reichert shares a personal story of his younger brother's death and its impact on his work with boys.\n- He connects boys' struggles to disconnection and numbness related to societal expectations of maleness.
Be an Attentive Ally
- To be an ally for boys, provide attentive, agenda-free listening to strengthen their self-connection.\n- Stay consistent in offering presence; boys will lean into it on their own terms over time.
Keep Close to Your Son
- Mothers should sit beside their sons, offering consistent presence without pressure to talk.\n- Over time, boys will engage on their own terms, building connection and trust.
