

428. They Took Our Daughter | Todd & Krista Kolstad
46 snips Mar 4, 2024
Todd and Krista Kolstad share their gripping journey of fighting the state of Montana for custody of their daughter, Jennifer. Todd, an Air Force veteran turned tech entrepreneur, and Krista, a licensed mortician, open up about the struggles they face as they navigate their daughter's identity crisis. They discuss emotional challenges, bullying, and mental health emergencies, and reflect on their painful experience with Child Protective Services. Their story highlights the complexities of parenting in a system that often feels out of their control.
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Initial Concerns and Counseling
- Jennifer, 12, expressed a desire to be a boy, prompting family discussions about potential underlying reasons.
- The Kolstads explored trauma, losses, and considered counseling to help Jennifer understand her feelings.
Appeal of Gender Ideology
- Children with creative, open personalities and fluid identities may be drawn to gender-fluid ideologies.
- These ideologies can offer outsiders a sense of belonging and recognition, especially during adolescence.
Source of Transition Ideas
- Jennifer's exposure to gender transition ideas seemed primarily online, especially TikTok, and through peer influence.
- The Kolstads implemented internet restrictions, but Jennifer still accessed social media outside their home.