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Round Table China

Together apart. Commuter marriages on the rise!

Jan 8, 2025
Explore the rise of long-distance 'commuter marriages' in China, where couples often live apart for career aspirations. Hear about the emotional challenges faced by highly educated women balancing ambition and relationships. Discover how traditional marital roles are being redefined, fostering independence and fairness. Learn about the impact of distance on divorce rates and the ways couples seek to alleviate emotional burdens. Finally, find out how separations can lead to a greater appreciation for the time spent together.
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Quick takeaways

  • Commuter marriages in China are increasingly common, driven by couples prioritizing career ambitions over traditional cohabitation expectations.
  • Despite the pursuit of financial stability, commuter marriages introduce emotional challenges that require couples to develop strategies for maintaining connection.

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Rising Trend of Commuter Marriages

Increasingly, couples in China are opting for commuter marriages, where they live in different cities to balance their careers and family life. A recent study from Xi'an Jiao Tong University found that more couples are embracing this lifestyle, particularly among women with higher levels of education, who are pursuing their career ambitions. This phenomenon is not isolated to China; it reflects a global trend observed in countries like the U.S., Canada, and Sweden, highlighting a shift in relationships where partners prioritize individual growth over traditional cohabitation. While meeting frequency varies from weekly to just a few times a year, this arrangement challenges the conventional expectations of marriage and companionship.

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