henrinouwensociety Henri Nouwen, Now & Then Podcast | James Finley, "An Invitation to the Healing Path"
Sep 15, 2023
In this conversation, James Finley, a clinical psychologist and friend of Henri Nouwen, reflects on his journey from trauma to healing. He discusses the significance of solitude and the influence of spiritual mentors like Thomas Merton in shaping his faith. Finley shares heartfelt anecdotes about recognizing divine encounters in daily life and the importance of contemplation for personal growth. He emphasizes the transformative power of embracing intentional practices in fostering deeper connections with the divine.
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Childhood Trauma And Dissociation
- James Finley describes his earliest memory of being thrown across a room by his father and witnessing ongoing domestic violence.
- He explains he dissociated as a child and later understood that experience spiritually and psychologically.
A Threat, Then A Silent Apology
- Finley recounts telling his father he would join a monastery and his father threatened to kill his mother.
- Years later they visited the monastery together and Finley experienced his father's silent way of saying sorry.
Merton's Simple, Healing Assignment
- Finley tells how he met Thomas Merton as novice master and was terrified to speak with him.
- Merton assigned a simple daily task that built trust and humility and leveled their relationship.
