How To Talk To Girls Podcast The Truth About Sexuality and Human Connection
May 27, 2025
Lawrence Lanoff, a sex-positive life coach and Tantra expert, shares insights on sexuality and real connections. He emphasizes that for women, intimacy is about presence and trust, not just performance. Lawrence discusses the importance of understanding female anatomy and sexual dynamics, highlighting the need for emotional engagement. He encourages men to relax and embrace their desires mindfully. The conversation also explores the art of intimate touch and how embracing one's sexuality can lead to deeper happiness and self-esteem.
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Early Tantra Lessons
- Lawrence Lanoff learned orgasm control and sexual energy management starting at age 11 from a tantric master.
- This early mastery gave him confidence and unique sexual experiences compared to typical teenagers.
Sexual Shame and Double Standards
- Male judgment and societal myths distort understanding of female sexuality, breeding shame and double standards.
- Women want sexual freedom and pleasure but fear slut-shaming and social repercussions.
Master Your Sexual Desire
- Learn to feel and relax into your sexual desire without rushing to act on it.
- Use breath to spread and savor arousal throughout your body to create sexual safety and presence.
