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Two Sides of FI

What No One Tells You About Purpose and Happiness in Retirement

Jan 7, 2025
In this conversation, Jordan "Doc G" Grumet shares his insights as a hospice physician and author on finding purpose in retirement. He distinguishes between 'big P' and 'little p' purposes, urging listeners to create personal fulfillment beyond societal expectations. The discussion highlights how reflecting on regrets can motivate meaningful activities and the joy of rediscovering passions overlooked during careers. Doc G emphasizes the essential role of relationships in achieving true happiness and navigating purpose anxiety in post-work life.
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  • Understanding the distinction between big P purpose and little p purpose helps individuals focus on joy rather than societal expectations in retirement.
  • Meaningful interactions and shared activities are essential for fostering happiness and community, proving that purpose can be created actively rather than passively sought.

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Understanding Big P versus Little p Purpose

There are two distinct types of purpose: big P purpose and little p purpose. Big P purpose is goal-oriented and tends to create a scarcity mindset, leading to high expectations that can result in disappointment and frustration. In contrast, little p purpose focuses on the process and activities that bring joy, regardless of achieving specific goals. The concept suggests that true happiness and fulfillment come from engaging in activities that excite and nurture individuals, rather than solely focusing on ambitious life achievements.

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