Archetypos Podcast 30. James-Olivia Chu-Hillman: Supporting A Scared Parent Around A Child’s “Dangerous” Behavior
Dec 14, 2024
James-Olivia Chu-Hillman, an insightful writer and facilitator, discusses the challenges of parenting a neurodivergent child, especially in light of a troubling incident at school. They emphasize the need for non-judgmental spaces and compassionate accountability rather than punishment. The conversation highlights the emotional complexities faced by parents when addressing sensitive behaviors, the importance of understanding each child’s unique context, and fostering genuine connections in both home and educational settings.
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Child's Threats from Peer Influence
- Celestyna's son expressed gun-related threats at school influenced by peers in a neurodivergent setting.
- He often seeks charged topics for attention, which escalated concerns from the school and parents.
Avoid Defining Child by Mistakes
- Labeling a child by their worst behavior harms their growth and self-identity.
- Children should be viewed as whole beings who make mistakes, not defined by isolated incidents.
Behavior Reflects Larger Social Context
- The issue with the child's threatening behavior is wider than one family; it ties to societal and political factors.
- Children's behavior often becomes politicized due to broader cultural context like gun violence fears.