765: Fella Fretting from Furtive Front Seat Fellatio | Feedback Friday
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Dec 16, 2022
Listeners dive into the deep waters of trauma as they explore the haunting experience of sexual assault from a male perspective. The discussion emphasizes the power of communication and therapy in healing. The hosts tackle workplace anxiety stemming from criticism and offer tips for improving focus and attention to detail. Financial dynamics within families are also explored, touching on the complexities of loans and setting boundaries without sacrificing relationships. It's a thoughtful blend of vulnerability and practical advice.
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Sexual Assault Trauma
A straight man recounts being sexually assaulted by another man at 21.
He kept the trauma a secret from his wife, causing him distress.
volunteer_activism ADVICE
Addressing Trauma
Acknowledge the trauma and seek therapy to process the experience.
Talk to your wife and utilize resources for male sexual assault victims.
insights INSIGHT
Arousal During Assault
Arousal non-concordance explains why sexual arousal can occur during assault.
It's a mismatch between physiological and psychological responses, not a reflection of desire.
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You're a straight man who was sexually assaulted by another man when you were just 21 years old, and it's haunted you ever since. Additionally, you bear the burden alone because you've never been able to tell your wife about this traumatic experience. What can you do to make this right after all this time? We'll try to help find an answer to this and more here on Feedback Friday!
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As a straight man, you were sexually assaulted by another man at 21 and have never told your wife. The experience has been haunting you. What should you do?
Written accuracy is a crucial part of your job, but you seem to make typos and mistakes no matter how hard you try. How can you improve your attention to detail while coping with the anxiety and insecurity that come with being criticized for your slip-ups?
You work hard to secure your children's future, not so your in-laws can hobnob at the country club and drink wine they can't afford — so their failure to repay the $20,000 you loaned them is making you resentful. What do you do now?
Is it worth reaching out to the "friends" who know about how your charming ex used to physically abuse you but went on vacation with him anyway? Or should you just write them all off and look for newer, better friends?
You're a human resources management major who aspires to become a job recruiter. The irony: you can't seem to get yourself a job in spite of doing well in mock interviews. How do you get better at selling yourself to potential employers?
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