Dr Suzanne Degges-White: The Unwritten Rules of Friendship: Why Things Turn Toxic

There's endless advice on romantic love, but how can you nurture loving friendships? And what should you do if a friendship turns sour, or leaves you feeling taken advantage of?

This week's guest is writer and therapist Dr Suzanne Degges-White, the author of Toxic Friendships: Knowing the Rules and Dealing with the Friends Who Break Them.

In this episode Andrew and Suzanne discuss: 

⭐️ Making friends and why it gets harder as we age

⭐️ Being a good friend

⭐️ How many friends we need

⭐️ When to let go of a friendship.

Dr Suzanne Degges-White is a professor and chair of the Counseling and Higher Education department at Northern Illinois University. She is a licensed counsellor whose focus includes working with individuals and families facing transitions. Her academic research explores development over the lifespan with a strong focus on women’s relationships and women’s developmental transitions.

 

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⭐️Strategies to detoxify a friendship or work relationship

⭐️3 things Suzanne knows to be true.

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Follow Up

 

Read Andrew’s new Substack newsletter The Meaningful Life, and join the community there.

Read Dr Suzanne Degges-White’s new book Toxic Friendships: Knowing the Rules and Dealing with the Friends Who Break Them 

Read Friends Forever : How Girls and Women Forge Lasting Relationships, the book on friendship co-written by Suzanne Degges-White and Christine Borzumato-Gainey

Read Dr Suzanne Degges-White’s articles for Psychology Today

Follow Dr Suzanne Degges-White on Twitter @DeggesWhite

Read Andrew’s book Wake Up and Change Your Life: How to Survive a Crisis and be Stronger, Wiser and Happier 

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