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I Asked Women How Long Men Should Last In Bed

Jan 22, 2024
In this fun and insightful discussion, guests Scarlett Minx, Roxy Winters, and Chloe Mae, all experienced presenters, share what women truly desire in bed. They delve into how long men should last during intimate moments, revealing a surprising range of preferences. The trio tackles topics like premature ejaculation, the pressures men face, and the evolving nature of sexual satisfaction. Through personal anecdotes and cultural comparisons, they emphasize enjoyment over performance, breaking down stigma and promoting open communication about sexual health.
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Quick takeaways

  • Women desire a balanced sexual experience, valuing penetration lasting 10 to 20 minutes alongside meaningful foreplay for deeper intimacy.
  • Premature ejaculation often results from societal performance pressure, highlighting the importance of open communication to alleviate anxiety and enhance enjoyment.

Deep dives

Expectations for Lasting in Bed

Women generally desire a balance in sexual performance, favoring a penetration duration of approximately 10 to 20 minutes during intercourse, though foreplay is acknowledged as equally important. The interviewees expressed that while they appreciate good performance, the quality of intimacy and emotional connection significantly enhances the experience. Most women are understanding of various sexual scenarios and care less about the precise timing of penetration, as long as the experience is enjoyable. The focus should shift from rigid expectations to enjoying the moment without the pressure of achieving specific timeframes.

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