Conroy Harris: Rites of Passage and Mentoring: How To Become An Adult

It often feels like the modern world values and rewards people who remain psychologically suspended in adolescence. Many people, particularly men, prolong and enjoy their adolescence for decades. 

Conroy Harris, CEO of the charity A Band of Brothers, discovered through his own life experiences that this wasn’t a healthy way to live. He believes that everyone seeks a meaningful identity and a purpose into which to channel the energies of early adulthood. 

In this classic reissued episode, Andrew and Conroy discuss the importance of rites of passage and mentoring, and how men can support one another to live authentic lives. Conroy shares some of his own difficult experiences as a young man, including periods of homelessness, and explains how mentoring and service to his community helped him find his way. 

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This week supporters will hear:

• Where Do I Fit In?
• Three Things Conroy Harris knows to be true. 
• AND subscribers also access all of our previous bonus content - a rich trove of insight on love, life and meaning created by Andrew and his interviewees.

Follow Up

Attend Andrew’s men’s retreat near Berlin in April 2026: details here 

Get Andrew’s free guide to difficult conversations with your partner: How to Tell Your Partner Difficult Things

Visit the A Band of Brothers website 

Follow A Band of Brothers on X @band_brothersuk

Read Iron John: a Book About Men by Robert Bly 

Andrew also mentions his interview with Dr Connie Zweig on being an elder, From Role to Soul 

Take a look at Andrew’s new online relationship course: My Best Relationship Tools 

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