Teach Your Kids Talking to Kids about War: Listening, Speaking, and Constructive Action
After recording the episode, I learned Dr. Gordon Fellman passed away last year. This episode is dedicated to him and all he taught me about building peace in my heart and in the world.
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Books
- The Righteous Mind: Why Good People Are Divided by Politics and Religion - Jonathan Haidt
- Mindset: The New Psychology of Success - Carol S. Dweck, PhD
- Freakonomics Revised and Expanded Edition - Steven Levitt
- Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life: Life-Changing Tools for Healthy Relationships - Marshall B. Rosenberg, PhD
- How to Talk So Kids Can Learn at Home and in School - Adele Faber
Organizations
- Union of Concerned Scientists
- The Palestinian Centre for Rapprochement Between People
- Moms Clean Air Force
- Project Drawdown
- Brandeis University
- Gordon Fellman | People | Department of Sociology | Brandeis University
- Staff | About the Center | International Center for Ethics, Justice and Public Life | Brandeis University
- Sylvia and Joseph Slifka Israeli Coexistence Scholarship
- Environmental Studies Program | Brandeis University
- International Center for Ethics, Justice and Public Life | Brandeis University
- Minor in Peace, Conflict and Coexistence Studies | Undergraduate Program
- Arab/Jewish Student Dialogue | Past Projects and Programs | Core Programs
Related Resources
- Ecological Footprint Calculator
- Essential Partners
- No Peace, No Sustainable Development: A Vicious Cycle that We Can Break | United Nations
- Institute for Defense and Disarmament Studies - Wikipedia
- Iraq - Kanan Makiya - Saddam Hussein - The New York Times
- These 7 charts show how the world is becoming a better place
- Racism & Me: A Workshop for Kids | Modulo
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Chapters
[00:00:39] - Introduction to Teaching about War & Peace
[00:01:25] - Four Steps Approach
[00:07:31] - Coping with Emotional Turmoil
[00:16:49] - Gifted Children and War
[00:27:00] - The Power of Storytelling
[00:38:13] - Civic Responsibility & Action
Time Codes
00:00:39 — Introduction: Manisha kicks off the episode by delving into the complex topic of teaching kids about war and peace, with a nod to sustainable and just global futures.
00:01:25 — Manisha's Four-Step Approach: Overview of the four steps involved in approaching the subject matter: self-awareness, attentive listening, mutual inquiry, and concrete action.
00:02:17 — Personal Experiences in Israel and Palestine: Impact of conflict zones explored through personal narratives.
00:03:34 — Critique of Media: Discussion on how media perpetuates anxieties and fears, diverting attention from possible positive changes.
00:04:36 — Connection to Israeli-Palestinian Crisis: Unveiling personal connections to current world crises and the learning derived from them.
00:07:31 — Coping with Grief: How to navigate dark times through constructive conversations, inspired by personal tragedy.
00:08:38 — Parental Intuition: The value of trusting one's instincts when discussing heavy topics with children.
00:10:33 — Language Matters: Avoiding the labeling of people as 'bad' or 'evil' and instead focusing on underlying issues.
00:14:18 — Starting with Listening: Importance of acknowledging children's feelings and queries about war.
00:16:49 — Gifted Children’s Reactions: Exploring how gifted children are intensely affected by concepts of war and justice.
00:18:50 — Media Rebuttal: Challenging the prevailing media narrative that the world is deteriorating.
00:22:20 — Personal Transformation: Manisha's journey from active protests to introspective impact.
00:25:36 — Mindset Changes: The uphill battle of changing societal perspectives for a better world.
00:30:35 — Power of Small Acts: The ripple effect of simple, local actions like library volunteering.
00:38:13 — Importance of Voting: A call to democratic participation as both a right and a privilege, underlining the impact on future generations.
00:44:00 — Community Inclusivity: Manisha introduces scholarship options for the Teach Your Kids community, emphasizing inclusivity.
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