Round Table China A cure for the lovesick?
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Apr 25, 2025 Love can blind us to who we really are, sparking irrational behavior and cultural stigma. A new service aims to cure lovesickness, raising questions about emotional health and validation. The lively discussion also features heartwarming insights from the Beijing International Film Festival, celebrating the charm of Chinese cinema and the connections fostered among its global participants. Listeners will enjoy exploring coping mechanisms for heartbreak while discovering the unexpected romantic opportunities that can arise from new hobbies.
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Understanding 'Lian'ai Nao'
- "Lian'ai nao" or "love brain" describes a state of being overly obsessed or irrational when in love.
- This state causes people to lose common sense and focus too much on their partner, sometimes recklessly.
Low Self-Worth Fuels Lovestruck State
- People in the lovestruck state often seek validation due to low self-worth rooted in childhood.
- Parental neglect or dismissive comments may cause adults to crave affirmation from romantic partners.
Love’s Universal, Poetic Nature
- Falling in love is a universal human experience that brings joy and emotional richness.
- Overanalyzing why people fall in love removes the natural, poetic aspect of romance.