On this episode: Elizabeth, Lucy and Jamilah talk about secrets. A member of our Facebook community recently asked how you should handle it when a kid confides in you… and asks you not to tell your co-parent. Is her current no-secrets policy solid, or should she maybe reconsider?

And after that discussion, we’ll of course circle up for a round of triumphs and fails.

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Care & Feeding | Should I Keep My Kid’s Secrets?