How To Talk To Girls Podcast A Unique Way To Find Your PERFECT Match
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Sep 8, 2025 Talia Goldstein, a matchmaker and founder of Three Day Rule, shares her journey from blog to matchmaking powerhouse. She discusses what women truly want in relationships, from emotional connections to respectful communication. Talia highlights the importance of chemistry and realistic expectations in dating, along with the unique advantages of personalized matchmaking over online platforms. With humor, she tackles the often-ridiculous criteria people have for partners, encouraging a more open-minded approach to finding love.
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From City-Search Blog To Matchmaking
- Talia described 3 Day Rule's origin as a city search and blog that told women where their type hung out in LA.
- She transitioned from city search, events, and dating sites into focused matchmaking after growth overwhelmed the small team.
Pick Three Non-Negotiables
- 3 Day Rule makes clients pick three absolute must-haves to focus the search and avoid unrealistic lists.
- Prioritize attributes that will matter in 20 years rather than every preference you can imagine.
Cold Approach Recruiting Works
- Talia recounted approaching potential matches anywhere: Instagram, Whole Foods, yoga and even elevators to vet and recruit women for clients.
- She shared success stories where cold approaches led to coffee dates and long-term relationships including marriage and children.
