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The Jordan Harbinger Show

1062: Ruth Whippman | Raising Boys in the Age of Impossible Masculinity

Oct 10, 2024
01:23:00
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Ruth Whippman, the author of BoyMom, dives into the challenges boys face today, highlighting a mental health crisis marked by loneliness and academic struggles. She discusses the confusing messages boys receive about masculinity, leading to relationship avoidance. Whippman advocates for better emotional nurturing and diverse role models to help boys build social skills. She also tackles the impact of toxic masculinity and societal pressures, emphasizing the need for deeper emotional connections and healthier narratives around manhood.
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Quick takeaways

  • Boys in America are experiencing a mental health crisis, marked by increased suicide rates, loneliness, and academic underachievement compared to girls.
  • Conflicting societal messages about masculinity confuse boys, leading them to avoid relationships for fear of being unfairly labeled as 'toxic' or 'creepy.'

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The Crisis of Masculinity

Boys in America are experiencing a crisis related to masculinity, highlighted by a growing disconnect between traditional male expectations and contemporary societal norms. The conversation surrounding masculinity often oscillates between urging boys to be dominant and the fear of being labeled as 'toxic' for assertive behavior. This contradiction leads many boys to retreat from pursuing relationships, opting instead for avoidance to sidestep potential accusations of overstepping boundaries. Discussions around these issues reveal the complexities boys face in navigating their identities amid evolving gender dynamics.

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