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Charting Toward Intimacy

All the Touches We Don't Want | Ep. 139

Oct 16, 2023
Discover the compelling concept of 'touched out' and how it affects personal relationships. The speakers delve into 'bristle touch,' exploring the complexities of intimacy and discomfort. Tips for combating negative reactions to touch are shared, encouraging healthier connections. Plus, there's a fascinating book recommendation that could enhance your understanding of touch dynamics. Join the discussion as they tackle listener questions, aiming to improve intimacy in everyday life.
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Quick takeaways

  • Feeling 'touched out' can overwhelm desires for affection due to constant physical contact, necessitating alone time and strategic communication.
  • Incorporating regular, non-sexual touch into daily interactions helps foster intimacy and alleviates the pressure surrounding physical affection.

Deep dives

Navigating Feelings of Being Touched Out

Feeling touched out can occur when constant physical contact, whether from children or caregiving roles, overwhelms one’s desire for touch. This sensation often makes even the simplest affectionate gestures from a partner feel burdensome, leading to frustration and anger. Practical tips to alleviate this feeling include scheduling alone time, allowing oneself moments to calm down and recharge. Additionally, identifying the types of touch that are bothersome can help in finding ways to mitigate those interactions, allowing for more intentional and comfortable physical touch with a partner.

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